Usually It Happens... What Happens...

4.24pm  (CST) - 10/31/2020

2.54am (IST) - 11/01/2020

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Too many varieties of people you daily get to meet, esp. when you interact w/ people. At first, everyone looms to be friendly... absorbing... 'like-minded' & pretty devoted as well, perhaps as time accumulates by, we start analyzing people not by their words or behavior but their 'Mentality' they keep towards you; or 'bout others... 

... most times, we judge people by their proverbial born nature, esp. the way they treat others but there are always those scenarios as well when we know 'em by making assumptions. There is & will always be much difference b/w 'Judgement' & 'Assumptions'... & these two words really play a vital role amongst everyone's lives... 

and when it comes to 'Professional' &/or 'Personal' life, it becomes pretty hard to choose which side we need to sway along because there's always this moment when thoughts contract thinking to one's mind, & when it happens... we either loose people as friends or become their mind's perspective or perception undisguised. 

Usually, it happens to those who treat others equivalently w/ friendliness, though sometimes or most times, most people take advantage of your friendliness and start loosing your worth in their life when they 'know you'... & it's important to learn why we should not treat everyone equally.. it really does make different to life when it comes to respect...

.. as long as people don't know you, they swing in any way but once they start knowing you, they start getting control on you, esp. to keep themselves stand tall and proving their points right when things don't go right, sometimes.

As if i talk honest, in my perspectives what i feel about today's reality is, we should remain 'Be Us'; shan't loose our originality just because someone or others do not like you. it could be either you are living around wrong people or they are living w/ wrong mentality, though funny thing is, we can not change anyone until we either change our thoughts or change the way of our 'friendship', 'colleague-ship' or whatever-beap-ship... mentality we have in our life.. because usually it happens what just happens, perhaps mismatching of thoughts shan't be the cause to one's 'Desperandum'.

Ps.

everyone should follow what's important in life; & learn to ignore irrelevant things/people. this is how one can remain constant w/ his choice of decisions... in life.